Sick of walking on eggshells with emotionally unavailable partners

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Based on everything you’ve told me about your situation, it appears as though you have a disorganized attachment style… which I call a “Spice of Lifer.”  To learn more, watch this brief but super comprehensive video, and check out my signature course, DISORGANIZED ATTACHMENT 101, taking the Spice of Lifer from confused to clear, in only 7 lessons. (Scroll down, to find out more). I can't wait to welcome you to our loving community!


7 Steps for the disorganized Spice of Lifer to go from self-doubting to self-sovereign, and attract the soul-shaking, passionate partnership of their dreams, without spending time and money in therapy, with no result.

10 downloadable workbooks and activities and assignments to keep you engaged and on track.

24 Video lectures broken down into bite-sized portions of 15-30 minutes, so you can easily watch or listen on the go.

17 Arts-based experiential demonstrations and tutorials.

Lifetime access to all course content, so you can go at your own pace and convenience.

Powerful guided meditations that tap into deep emotional healing while unleashing your creative energy.

Bonuses - Lifetime access to: 1) the private Facebook group; 2) a monthly lvestream Q&A;  3) A Toolkit for Lasting Change.

Plus, don't forget your fast-action bonus! Purchase Disorganized Attachment 101  before the clock runs out, and receive

"Tapping into Love," for FREE! ($197 value).

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40-Page Downloadable workbook and step-by-step guide.

3 Completely done-for-you scripts on the topics of relationships, money, and body image.

3 Video tutorials and demonstrations.

1 Powerful heart-activating guided meditation to install new affirmations.

2 Personalized templates to write your own scripts.

Lifetime access to all course content, so you can go at your own pace and convenience.

success stories

Jenna had no trouble meeting people she found interesting and would quickly get infatuated. After about three to six months, however, things would fizzle, and her amorous feelings would turn off for no reason. After taking my course, she realized there were deep seeded fears of intimacy that kept her safe by numbing her emotions once things got serious. Six months after taking my course she felt more secure than ever before, and year later, she was in a committed relationship with a healthy partner. 

“I used to be afraid that secure relationships were boring relationships and I’d just wind up hurting a good person. But focusing on my own healing actually demystified my feelings of attraction and now I know I can have both passion and security.” - Jenna O'Quinn


Kaitlin was a single mother who left a 10-year abusive relationship. In the dating world, she conflicted about her attraction to emotionally unavailable men, because on the one hand, they felt safely distant, but on the other hand, she anxiously worried they didn’t really love her and were likely cheating on her. Ultimately, her resentment and suspicion would ruin any relationship she tried to cultivate. After taking my course, Kaitlin was able to process her trauma, and let go of the hurt and self-blame. Once she learned to relax and trust her own loveability and discernment again, she met a secure partner within 9 months of completing the program.

“I would continually fall down a red flag rabbit hole, and I couldn’t see my way out of it. Then I took Briana’s course, and a veil was lifted. I learned to soften and receive love, instead of just protect and defend myself. I shudder to think of where I’d be now if I hadn’t taken this course.”

- Kaitlin Foster


Felix was a manager in his family business, who carried a lot of responsibility for taking care of his family. He received many dismissive and punitive messages growing up, about sacrificing himself for the good of everyone else’s happiness and making things go smoothly. This made him try really hard and move really fast when courting women in the beginning, and then resent them and withdraw when they got too close. Then, he’d self soothe with alcohol, food, porn, or online gaming. After taking this program, Felix recognized he had little to no boundaries with his family, and it was negatively impacting his relationships. Within 6 months of completing the course, he’d quit the family job and started his own online business. He’d also started dating someone new, and was conscientiously taking things slow.

“The step-by-step exercises for identifying and stating your boundaries were a game-changer for me. It helped me declare my independence, even if my folks were still a little sore about it. But I know now its okay for them to have sad feelings. And I’m happier than I’ve ever been, doing my own thing, and dating someone that admires that about me.”

- Felix Patterson


Does this count as psychotherapy, and will my insurance cover it?

This content is not considered psychotherapy, and it is not covered under insurance, but we anticipate you will experience some psychotherapeutic benefit, in the realms of self help and personal growth.

Important to note: If you are struggling with active psychosis, severe mental illness, self harming behaviors, suicidality, or recent hospitalization, we do not advise consuming this content without the supervision of a licensed, trauma-informed psychotherapist. 

What if I sign up but then change my mind?

Your course purchase comes with a 14-day money back guarantee. If you don't like the course, you can contact us within 14 days of purchase, and you will receive your money back, no questions asked. You may contact us at Please allow up to 48 hours for a response.

What is the time commitment?

Once you have purchased the course, you have lifetime access to the materials, and you can complete the lessons at your own convenience. An estimate of how much time each lesson will take is provided on your course content checklist, after purchase. 

What if I have questions?

If you have questions, we invite you to pose them inside the private student group on Facebook, where all paying members of our community have lifetime access to monthly livestreams and can gain feedback from Briana, and/or her team. You may also contact us at Please allow up to 48 hours for a response.

Does Briana Offer Private Coaching Sessions?

At this time, Briana does not offer private coaching. However, you are invited to join her during the live group coaching calls and Q&A sessions inside the paid, private Facebook group, 1x per month, to ask your questions and gain direct feedback.