A 4-Day Challenge to help you bust through your energy blocks and attract a soul-shaking love!

This 4-day challenge is for the wounded lover interested in building their self confidence, becoming  irresistibly attractive to a partner, and calling in a soul-shaking, passionate relationship, even if you are anxiously needy, have a fear of intimacy, or believe you're not good enough.  



"Briana MacWilliam is the kind of teacher who gets down to the bone where the blood is hot and running. She will never point to a thing when she can show you it...Ms. MacWilliam is a challenger and comforter, a guide and a companion. She knows when to comfort and when to confront and most of all she has the timing of a professional actor. She knows when to drop the important stuff and she drops it on you form her own experiential core. She does not take you anywhere she is not willing to travel herself. She has a combination of grace and grit that make her a fantastic teacher and a fabulous clinician."

— A.P., 42


Finding and keeping a passionate partnership is harder than ever before...

After all, you're not just competing with lady luck anymore, now you're up against dating apps, FOMO ("fear of missing out"), and social distancing, which can really cramp your style.

But, it's not just the insane amount of competition you face...

It's also its also the quality of the partners you attract.

There are so many smart, funny, witty, beautiful super achievers out there searching for an attractive, secure partner, that it can feel impossible to stand out.

And its only gotten harder with the endless swiping on dating apps.

In 2000, your prospect had an attention span of 12 seconds. Today that number is 7 seconds. A goldfish has a longer attention span!

These challenges explain why 60% of America's single population has never been married, and 23% of those have been divorced.

So, how do you pluck the heart-strings of a secure "unicorn" in the most competitive market ever?

Before I answer that, let me introduce myself...

Screen Shot 2020-05-02 at 2.11.45 AM


Hi, my name is Briana MacWilliam.

As an author, educator, and licensed and board-certified Creative Arts Therapist with over 15 years of clinical experience, I have developed a spiritual approach to healing attachment wounds with creative arts interventions, called The MacWilliam Method™.

 I've also built an online community for thousands of adults struggling with insecure attachment styles.

While I don't know everything there is to know about attachment styles in adult relationships, I know A LOT—especially when it comes to developing a deeper sense of felt security, whether single or partnered. 

That's why I urge you to read this entire page all the way to the end--because what I'm about to share with you could clarify your desires, increase your confidence, and eliminate limiting beliefs while magnifying your attractive energy, even if you are anxiously needy, have a fear of intimacy, or believe you're not good enough. 

Screen Shot 2020-07-01 at 8.32.21 PM


In the years I've spent working with adults struggling with insecure attachment styles, I've learned that its not complicated to learn how to attract stable and emotionally available partners, when you have a deep understanding of your attachment style and how to harness your vital energy. PERIOD.

Success in love isn't about having the best job, losing the most weight, contouring the highest cheekbones, or being funnier and wittier than everyone else. 

But, it can be difficult without the right tools, and if you have no pre-existing models for how to function in a secure manner, and/or if you don't understand how romantic energy works.

Cultivating clear, focused, vital, juicy, relaxed, sexy and emotionally engaging energy, on the other hand, can not only turn anyone’s head, but make them want to stick around. 

For example, insecure attachment styles affect our beliefs about the availability of love in the world, so we spend a lot of energy working “hard” to gain approval and impress someone we like. This affects the energetic "vibe" we carry around love, turning it into an endless performance review. But the energy that is required to feel productive, does not always translate into the energy that will allow you to be successful in LOVE!

But  how do you switch your energetic "vibe" from repellant to irresistible?


If you're like most serious, passion-seeking lovers, you've probably enlisted a talk therapist or counselor at one point. Unfortunately, with most talk therapists and counselors, you usually run into one of the following problems:

You Gain A Lot Of Insight, But Still Feel The Same Way.

With insight, you can feel a sense of relief, at first, because you think if you can anticipate a problem surfacing, you can control it and avoid it.

But obsessing over control and "improving" yourself is the same problem and energy that qualifies you as having insecure attachment, in the first place.

Which means you are using coping skills that are likely to recreate the very situation you fear the most!

So, now that you're aware of your anxiety, you're anxious about being anxious--and that's what I call a "double trouble."

Too much focus on trying to "solve" the problem can perpetuate the problem.

That's why with all the insight in the world, you may still attract the same types of partners, and continue to relive the same relationship patterns.

Overtime, you come to realize there is no way to think yourself around what causes stress in your relationships, you have to activate the heart in order to feel your way through it.

This requires understanding how emotions work on a physiological, psychological, and spiritual level.

Talk therapists and counselors are often uneducated on modalities that affect real changes in your felt experiences on the BODY LEVEL.

They know how to work with your thoughts, but not the biology that influences your thoughts (and your ENERGY).



Feeling frustrated and hopeless about the time and money you might've spent on therapy and counseling that hasn't lead to significant results in your experience of "felt security," or changing the types of partners you are attracting. 

Of course, you could always tape together pre-made love scripts, download free e-books to help you assess and identify all the "red flags", and/or attend expensive self-help workshops......

But those come with their own set of problems:

  • Love scripts cannot evolve and feel inauthentic as intimacy deepens.
  • Harping on red flags only leads to rigid exclusion, and recreating the same unhealthy patterns in love. 
  • Self-help only leads to more self criticism and "double troubles" (i.e. criticizing yourself for being so self-criticizing).

It's hard to find a really great, fun, creative option—an affordable, easy-to-use option, that produces results and makes you feel significantly different in your mind AND in your body. 

If this rings true for you, you're gonna love this course!

4 steps to passionate partnership

This is a one-of-a-kind online course and 4-day challenge for the wounded lover interested in building their self confidence, becoming irresistibly attractive to a partner,and calling in a soul-shaking, passionate relationship, even if you are anxiously needy, have a fear of intimacy, or believe you're not good enough.  

In only 4 days, you will get a taste of my unique approach--The MacWilliam Method™-- which will maximize your attractive energy, while introducing you to creative, evidenced-based tools and practices that foster felt security for adults struggling with insecure attachment.

Screen Shot 2020-04-30 at 5.27.47 PM

"I thoroughly enjoyed the lectures and the assignments. My aha moment came through examining my limiting beliefs. I have been able to process, understand, and forgive myself for my part of some of the issues my late husband and I had. This has been restorative for me. I absolutely enjoyed your delivery, your humor, and your ability to help me delve deep into my own process." 

--Laurie G.

Screen Shot 2020-07-01 at 8.32.46 PM


✔ A fool proof strategy for clearing your energy and setting your romantic intentions.

✔ An assessment of your relationship style (hint: its likely to be one of the three most common).

✔ A focus wheel to turn your deepest fears into your greatest strengths.

✔ A guided meditation and arts-based experiential to open your heart chakra and maximize your attractive energy.

4 Steps to Passionate Partnership gives you the tools you need and a blueprint to follow, so you can attract the soul-shaking passionate partnership you want.

With The MacWilliam Method™, you will come to experience self sovereignty as evolving out of a continuous loop between conscious awareness and creative expression.

"Self-sovereignty" is a term used to describe an optimal experience of personal agency, esteem, confidence, and security, so you can approach your relationships from a position of compassion, acceptance, enjoyment, and personal empowerment.

Don't you want a partner that is SO into you, that...

  • you don't have to guess when they'll call you back,
  • you can expect them to initiate making plans and follow through with them,
  • you anticipate that they'll ask about your thoughts and feelings regarding important topics in their life,
  • and can trust that they are generally open, willing and excited to talk about the future of the relationship?

Maybe that all sounds great, but you're convinced that's a Fairy tale...

Don't worry. That's just old energy blocking you from seeing the possibilities. On Day 1, we will tackle this issue with a tried and true strategy for clearing your energy and setting your intention for love.

Or maybe you already have a positive attitude towards love, and you've tried all the "right" things when it comes to communicating in an emotionally honest way-- and your partners STILL don't respond well!

Luckily, this is where a knowledge of attachment styles, and how they affect your overall RELATIONSHIP style, can help you turn confusion to clarity, so you don't have to chase your partners down anymore, or feel smothered by controlling ultimatums.

Have your deepest fears of rejection, abandonment, or failure convinced you that your desires are "unrealistic" and you need to "lower your standards" if you want to be content, as opposed to happy?

The focus wheel exercise on Day 3 will blow that myth out of the water, helping you sort through your fear-based "needs" and what you truly desire on a soul-level. The guided meditation and arts-based experiential on Day 4, will help you embody this new soul-based desire, by magnifying your vital, healthy and irresistible energy through an opening of the heart chakra.

With 4 Steps to Passionate Partnership, you'll experience all of this, and more.

4 steps to passionate partnership


  • Four 20-30 minute instructional videos, including a guided meditation and several experiential tutorials.
  • This also includes a downloadable 30-page PDF workbook, and access to a paid, private Facebook group for support and discussion with other participants.
  • In this group you can post your assignments and receive feedback right away, as well as participate in the monthly livestreams, when I respond to your questions in real time.

The truth is, the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey, already exists INSIDE YOU.

The only reason The MacWilliam Method™ is so effective, is because it builds a bridge to help you access more of YOU; your spirit's inner wisdom.

Once that happens, your energy glows with authenticity, lighting you up like a beacon for all to see! Boundaries become clear.

Healthy discernment and decision-making comes much more easily.

You feel revitalized by your own passions and pursuits.

And you cannot help but become a super-attractor of high quality partners.

If you can set aside 30 minutes a day, for 4 days, you cannot help but benefit from this course.

Because your time is limited, you need a fun, creative solution that's quick and easy-to-use.

Even if you skim over the lectures and the workbook, the experiential practices are powerful enough to start shifting your energy immediately.

  • You don't need to be a therapist or counselor in training.
  • You don't need to take every yoga class within a 5 mile radius and learn to meditate for hours a day.
  • You don't even need to be actively dating!

Anyone can start attracting potential partners right away with effective tools for harnessing your focus, and energy.


167 to 47 clear


In only 4 days, you will get a taste of my unique approach--The MacWilliam Method™-- which will maximize your attractive energy, while introducing you to creative, evidenced-based tools and practices that foster felt security for adults struggling with insecure attachment.

But don't just take my word for it. Here are some of the phenomenal benefits participants have experienced with this 4-day challenge.

✔ The ability to bounce back easily from an incompatible relationship, without taking on all the blame or responsibility for what "went wrong."

✔ Experiencing lots of eligible, healthy, emotionally available partners banging down your door.

✔ Having  a toolbox of practices that will help ground and focus your energy when you are feeling stressed or anxious.

✔ No more  wasting time beating yourself up for things (situations and people) you cannot control, so you can excel and take command of the things that you can!

Experience has taught me that its not complicated to learn how to energetically take control of your attractive energy, when you have a deep understanding of your attachment style and how energy works.

But, it can be difficult without the right tools, and if you have no pre-existing models for how to function in a secure manner.

That's why I created this 4-day challenge and online course, 4 Steps to Passionate Partnership!

Because it works.

Screen Shot 2020-07-02 at 9.03.55 AM

"I LOVED this challenge! My favorite exercise was the clearing meditation in the heart space--my divine center. I never would have imagined what my mind could create about such feeling. Again, going so deep into ourselves, creates these beautiful images. It made me realize that we've got it all within ourselves already!"

--Anna. C.

4 steps to passionate partnership


If you had to pay $200 per hour, 1x per week for a talk therapist, you could expect to spend $2,400 in three months worth of treatment.

For a fraction of what you would spend on 1 hr in counseling or therapy (of which you'd spend most of the time going over the intake forms), this course delivers tangible results, in only 4 lessons worth of fun and easy experiential instruction.

Of course, you can always ignore this offer and continue…

  • Feeling stuck in "codependent" behaviors & patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism, care-taking, catastrophizing, guilt, self-criticism & more.
  • Feeling frustrated and helpless over a dismal dating scene and digital "FOMO" culture.
  • Worrying about red flags and struggling with a scarcity attitude about love.
  • Beating yourself up over competitive and judgmental ideas about how to "perfect" yourself, before you can attract the perfect love into your life.
  • Wondering what tools or resources are available to maximize your attractive energy so you can feel confident that the partner of your dreams is out there, and readying themselves for you too.

The choice is clear.

That's why I urge you to buy 4 Steps to Passionate Partnership today.


When does the course start and finish?

The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.

How long do I have access to the course?

How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.

What if I am unhappy with the course?

We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us at Support@brianamacwilliam.com, in the first 14 days, and we will give you a full refund.



All the things and the feels are possible for you.

More than that, its even probable, once you you decide and commit to living nothing less than a next-level life, and committing to the processes that will set you on that path.

The good news is, the tools you might need are relatively simple.

And the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey, already exists INSIDE YOU.

However, learning how to access those parts of yourself can sometimes be a difficult task, when you've been taught your whole life to do the exact opposite.

But that's just conditioning.

And it can be undone.

Just as the brain is blessed with plasticity.

And it can be rewired.

Negative energy and defensive patterning that keep you stuck in a confusion cycle around her personal boundaries CAN be transformed and healed, so that you can RELAX into the brightest luminescence that is your spirit.

It is a process which will allow you to step into a state of being on FIYAH about life, and share that brilliance with a stars-in-their-eyes lover.

If taking a chance on pivoting in that direction isn't worth the cost of this course, I don't know what is!

4 steps to passionate partnership
Screen Shot 2020-07-02 at 9.03.12 AM

"This course surprised me in all the right ways. I've taken a lot of online courses at this price point, and I can tell you, Briana's content is rich and goes deep; you get way more bang for your buck. Absolutely no fluff here. And it will stay with you long after the 4 days. I highly recommend taking this course. "

--Nadia Santanna, 29