There's an easier way to attract loving, secure partners, while embracing your most powerful and sovereign self.
HEALING ATTACHMENT WOUNDS WITH MINDFULNESS AND CREATIVE ARTS INTERVENTIONS
7 Lessons for the conscious lover who wants to go from self-doubting to self-sovereign, so they can attract the soul-shaking, passionate partnership of their dreams, without spending years in therapy, with no tangible result.
ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A SOUL-SHAKING, PASSIONATE PARTNERSHIP, BUT STRUGGLE TO ACHIEVE SELF-CONFIDENCE IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS?
If you are feeling frustrated and hopeless about the time and money you might've spent on therapy and self-help and personal improvement, but none of it has lead to significant changes in the types of partners you are attracting, this course is for you!
There are so many smart, funny, witty, sexy super achievers out there searching for an attractive, secure partner, while draining themselves of the necessary resources to sustain a fulfilling life.
So often they think, "Once I finally meet 'the one' all the pieces will be in place, and I can finally relax and start enjoying myself."
But the enjoyment has to start long before that, even though you may be struggling under the weight of heavy circumstances in your life.
And many of us feel burdened, right now.
FINDING YOUR CENTER, FEELING CONFIDENT, AND MANAGING ANXIETY IS HARDER THAN EVER BEFORE.
With more disruptions to our daily routines than ever before, romantic relationships can feel impossible.
It's a struggle to avoid overwhelm, anxiety, depression, hopelessness, and a yearning for emotional connections, when our survival fears are so close to the surface.
But it's not just the external circumstances that make it hard to maintain your equilibrium, while searching for connection...
Attachment wounds leave us feeling insecure and vulnerable to painful patterns in love.
WHAT ARE ATTACHMENT STYLES?
Attachment styles are 4 unique blueprints for how you've learned to give and receive love in your childhood, but also through your adult romantic relationships.
Your blueprint is like a compass for how much closeness or space you desire, when it comes to emotional intimacy.
Individuals that want a lot of closeness with a partner, typically have anxious attachment; I call them "Open Hearts."
Individuals who want more space, usually have avoidant attachment; I call them "Rolling Stones."
Individuals that both want and fear closeness, are sometimes considered "fearful avoidant," "anxious-avoidant," or "disorganized"; I call them "Spice of Lifers."
Individuals who are comfortable with both closeness and separateness in relationships, and can flexibly move back and forth between those states of being, are considered securely attached; I call them "Cornerstones."
HOW DO ATTACHMENT STYLES AFFECT US?
Your attachment style biologically influences you in 4 compelling ways:
- From the deepest recesses of your survival brain (your Limbic brain)...
- From the stimulation of your nervous system...
- Through your genetic inheritance...
- And with a chemical cocktail of naturally occurring neurotransmitters that creates a euphoric attachment to inconsistent partners, similar to drug addiction.
But the brain has “plasticity”, which means it is malleable and changeable. Your attachment style can change!
THE #1 SECRET TO IMPROVING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Success in love isn't about having the best job, losing the most weight, contouring the highest cheekbones, or being funnier and wittier than everyone else. But, it can be difficult without the right tools, and if you have no pre-existing models for how to function in a secure manner.
In the years I've spent working with adults struggling with insecure attachment styles, I've learned that its not complicated to learn how to attract stable and emotionally available partners, when you have a deep understanding of how attachment styles work.
For example...
Anxious “Open Hearts” Tend To Think…
"I am not happy unless I am in a relationship. Otherwise, I question why nobody wants me and I figure I must be doing something wrong or I am not good enough. There are so few opportunities for true love in the world, you have to hang onto what you can."
Avoidant “Rolling Stones” tend to believe…
"Relationships come at the cost of personal freedom. I'll never find a partner that gets my need for space without taking it personally or creating unnecessary drama. I have a lot to give, it's just never enough. In the end, it's better to keep it casual."
Disorganized “Spice of Lifers” tend to assume…
"I want love and connection, but I am also afraid of it. Afraid that it's all a facade, that my partner is just using me, or eventually they will leave me, and I'll have deserved it. Better to get out while you still have the control, and the good memories."
Secure “Cornerstones” adopt a healthier perspective, which sounds like…
"I am open to a relationship and believe I'll meet someone when the time is right. Chemistry is great, but it's not everything, and for the long-term, I would want to make sure we had shared values, goals, and emotional honesty. Compatibility is the foundation for true romance, which builds over time."
So, how do you heal attachment wounds and attract a healthy, loving relationship?
WATCH KIM’S INSPIRATIONAL STORY OF TRANSFORMATION, AFTER TAKING THE 7 FUN LESSONS.
Kim struggled with depression and anxiety, as well as falling into a roller coaster relationships. Learning about the neural mechanisms of attachment, the role of complicated grief, and using body activating experientials, were Kim’s favorite aspects of the program.
“This program has done for me in 7 weeks what years of self-help books and cognitive therapy couldn’t do.”
-Kim Nava
Healing Attachment Wounds walks you through a 3-phase transformational process, over the course of 7 lessons, to help you adopt a more secure attachment style.
The benefits of adopting a secure attachment style include...
Being able to voice your needs without fear of your partner running away, or emotionally punishing you, and actually expecting that it will bring you closer.
Being able to determine what is your real “intuition:” versus a “triggered” emotional response, which helps you to feel empowered while honoring your emotional boundaries in love.
Waiting only minutes, rather than hours (or even days or weeks!), for a return text or phone call.
Not worrying about a wandering eye, because you know you have their rapt attention: (I'm talking about the type of relentless devotion that you only see in romance novels and Hollywood movies).
Plus, experiencing sex and emotional intimacy as a unified, sensual and spiritual experience.
Visioning exciting plans for the future, and seeing your partner immediately take action on making that happen as soon as possible.
Traveling and vacationing together to the places you’ve always wanted to go.
Spending quality time with each other's friends and family, without getting friend zoned or losing that “special spark”.
Making time for shared, creative activities that inspire laughter, playfulness, and passion in the relationship.
Being able to spend time apart to pursue your own passions projects, so that you can come back together, renewed and bubbling over with new things to share and talk about.
THE SOUL-SHAKING RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS IS OUT THERE; GET READY TO RECEIVE IT!
CHECK OUT STACY'S EXPERIENCE OF WALKING INTO THE LOVING PHASE AFTER EXPERIENCING A RADICAL SHIFT IN PERSPECTIVE.
Stacy came to purchase this course after dissolving a 17-year marriage and finding herself in a complicated, roller coaster relationship. Learning more about the framework of attachment theory, and the experiential exercises, including an exercise that involves creating a timeline and taking an inventory of your romantic history, were Stacy's favorite aspects of the program.
"I just think if anybody is struggling with a rollercoaster relationship, a push and pull dynamic, something where you find yourself wanting to be in one minute and out the next... this is the most helpful course. And I'm somebody who's been in therapy for four years. This is hands down the most helpful course I've ever done around these issues. It's super powerful, and I would say, just do it!"
-Stacy De La Rosa
Because your time is limited, you need a fun, creative solution that's quick and easy-to-use.
You don't need to be a therapist or counselor in training.
You don't need to take every yoga class within a 5 mile radius and learn to meditate for hours a day.
You don't even need to be actively dating!
Even if you skim over the lectures and the workbook, the experiential practices are powerful enough to start feeling increased attachment security, immediately.
If you can set aside 60 minutes a day, for 7 days, you cannot help but benefit from this course.
Anyone can quickly attract and/or cultivate the relationship of their dreams, with effective tools for healing attachment wounds and harnessing the awesome power of your creative energy!
LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION...
When was the last time you felt at ease, joyful, optimistic and deeply satisfied with your love life?
The lessons I teach in Healing Attachment Wounds will help you feel more secure and confident in relationships, and experience the kind of satisfying love life, you desire.
If you are...
Feeling stuck in "codependent" behaviors & patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism and care-taking, that orient you towards needing to "earn love" and missing the "challenge" to prove yourself, when its not there...
Tired of feeling frustrated and helpless over a dismal dating scene and digital "FOMO" culture, or a ticking biological clock that demands "you better settle, if you want kids"...
Exhausted from worrying about red flags and struggling with a scarcity attitude about love, believing, "This must be the best I can do"...
Struggling to understand how you can show compassion and love, without sacrificing your own needs, or what you really want in a relationship...
Feeling defeated and wondering if long-lasting romantic passion is really just a Disney pipe-dream...
Healing Attachment Wounds is perfect for you!
Here are some results from previous students...
Using the tools and techniques for accessing your inner wisdom in this course, Sally made a huge decision to quit her job and move to a new town, and away from a toxic, on-again off-again relationship that was preventing her from realizing her dream of having a family. Within 4 months, she’d found her dream job, and was already in a committed relationship with a healthy partner that also happened to be a widowed parent. Sally found herself accepting the idea that "family" comes in all shapes and sizes, and joyfully embraced the role of stepmother.
Andrea had a habit of dating individuals that were reliant on her, but also really resentful of her. When they were in a jam, they’d depend on her to get them out of it, but then ghost her, once the coast was clear. When she enrolled in Healing Attachment Wounds, she was tired of playing second fiddle, and wanted to feel like a priority. By the end of the course, she had blocked and removed several partners that were “simmering” her on the back burner, and decided to focus on her own career and spiritual practices. By the end of one year, her side hustle had turned into a successful coaching business and she had a very active dating life with many high-quality partners to choose from--only now, she was finally enjoying being single!
Paul and his wife had been married 20 years, when his wife told him he needed to change or she was leaving him. She’d felt isolated and alone for most of their marriage, and wanted more from him, or she was calling it quits. When Paul joined the program, he was looking for ways to get in touch with his emotions, when his whole life he’d been taught to dismiss or suppress them. In Healing Attachment Wounds, Paul was able to apply his creativity as an engineer and problem solver towards connecting with his emotions, in a way he’d never expected. He also reported experiencing deeper levels of intimacy with his wife, who emailed me personally to express gratitude for helping him.
WHY TALK THERAPY AND COUNSELING DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK...
If you're like most of the savvy, self-reflective, and highly motivated people I know, you've probably enlisted a talk therapist or counselor at one point.
Unfortunately, with most talk therapists and counselors, you usually run into one of the following problems:
You gain a lot of insight, but still feel the same way.
With insight, you can feel a sense of relief, at first, because you think if you can anticipate a problem surfacing, you can control it and avoid it.
But obsessing over control and "improving" yourself is the same problem and energy that qualifies you as having insecure attachment, in the first place.
Which means you are using coping skills that are likely to recreate the very situation you fear the most!
So, now that you're aware of your anxiety, you're anxious about being anxious--and that's what I call a "double trouble."
Too much focus on trying to "solve" the problem can perpetuate the problem.
That's why with all the insight in the world, you may still attract the same types of partners, and continue to relive the same relationship patterns.
Overtime, you come to realize there is no way to think yourself around what causes stress in your relationships, you have to activate the heart in order to feel your way through it.
This requires understanding how emotions work on a physiological, psychological, and spiritual level.
Talk therapists and counselors are often uneducated on modalities that affect real changes in your felt experiences on the BODY LEVEL.
They know how to work with your thoughts, but not the biology that influences your thoughts (and your ENERGY).
WHY The MacWilliam Method™ IS DIFFERENT
With The MacWilliam Method™, you will have a unique experience of increasing conscious awareness and the ability to harness your energy with intention, as evolving out of three core principles and tools: 1) Cognitive Reframing, 2) Body-activation, and 3) Arts-Based Experientials.
For instance:
Where as love scripts tell you what to say in very specific and static situations, The MacWilliam Method™ teaches you a foundational, step-by-step approach to decoding your defensive responses and learning hands-on exercises and skills for navigating your emotional and energetic "vibe."
This means you will have the tools to effectively communicate in an emotionally honest way, using your own words, and adapting to the ever-changing and evolving emotional landscape of adult relationships.
Instead of falling down a red flag rabbit hole, The MacWilliam Method™ will help you to understand the value in using your discernment, without slipping into judgement.
This will help prevent you from slipping into rigid exclusion, and recreating the same unhealthy patterns in love, while also supporting you in retraining automatic negative thought patterns, allowing you to open up your energy and receive healthy partners when they present themselves to you, (not just rule out the inappropriate ones).
Instead of focusing on self improvement, The MacWilliam Method™ also assumes an attitude of radical self-compassion.
The trick is tapping into the body's resources and vital energy, so you can stop head-focused energy from generating painful "double troubles" before they begin. This includes using mindfulness, guided visualizations and art making to help channel and diffuse anxious energy, rather than adding more momentum to the issue by pushing or pulling against it, or trying to obsessively "fix" it.
THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU, IF YOU FEEL INSPIRED TO...
Learn foundational concepts for how to completely CHANGE DAMAGING CORE BELIEF SYSTEMS and automatic negative thinking…
Become INCREASINGLY EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT, optimistic, confident, and perceptive, while maintaining healthy boundaries…
Put forth the time and effort towards GENUINE SELF REFLECTION and doing a meaningful personal inventory...
ASK BIG QUESTIONS about the mysteries of the Universe, and your place in it...
EXPLORE CREATIVE PROCESSES and approaches that might feel a little strange and silly at first, but allow you to explore your own greater depths with pleasure and ease…
And you believe your LOVE RELATIONSHIPS ARE A WORTHY INVESTMENT of time, money, and focused energy.
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
If you are looking for formulaic love scripts that are more about emotional manipulation than emotional honesty.
You want to be spoon fed quick “fix it” solutions that require no effort or self reflection from you.
You think spirituality is a bunch of nonsense and “woo woo” for simple minded people.
You are unwilling to ask big questions and allow yourself to sit with the ambiguity of not knowing the answer, right away.
You are not open to new ways of seeing and doing things, such as creative exercises and activities.
You don’t believe your love relationships are important enough to invest in.
AFTER ONLY 7 LESSONS, YOU WILL FINALLY HAVE THE TOOLS TO FEEL SECURE AND CONFIDENT IN LOVE.
But more than that, you will finally know what it is to feel self-sovereign and in command of your love life, so you can weather any storm, and still have plenty of opportunities for deep, soulful connections.
Just imagine what it would be like to...
TRUST your intuition and FEEL IN CONTROL when an insecurity or trigger pops up out of nowhere.
Be able to SQUASH AUTOMATIC NEGATIVE THOUGHTS before they spiral out of control.
SIT BACK AND RELAX while your partner takes the initiative to call you first, and frequently plan your activities together.
Go from walking on eggshells, to experiencing LOVING EXCHANGES with an adoring partner that RESPECTS YOUR BOUNDARIES and supports you in all that you do.
Be able to speak authentically and vulnerably, and have your partner SINCERELY CARE AND LISTEN, without dismissing or invalidating your feelings.
Be able to clearly and articulately state your values and priorities so you can VOICE YOUR NEEDS, AND GET THEM MET.
Experience conflicts in love as OPPORTUNITIES FOR DEEPENING INTIMACY with a partner that views arguments as a chance to learn how to be a better partner to you.
UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER'S MOTIVATIONS so you can show up as the most compassionate and inspiring lover they've ever had.
Let go of a fear of not being good enough, so you can finally attract and allow yourself to RECEIVE the type of soul-shaking love from a partner that worships the ground you walk on.
STILL NOT SURE? TIME FOR SOME #REALTALK...
Most western approaches in mental health and psychology promote increasing insight and talk therapy interventions for solving emotional problems.
But deep emotional problems are energetic blockages, not only intellectual A to B equations.
You might UNDERSTAND a problem, but understanding doesn’t necessarily mean you are going to FEEL any differently about it.
Similarly, just because you have INSIGHT into your problems, DOESN'T MEAN YOU KNOW HOW TO SOLVE THEM, or you would be in the relationship of your dreams, already!
And trying to figure it out on your own is a recipe for repeating the same negative relationship patterns, over and over again.
You will also now have a "DOUBLE TROUBLE" issue, which is when...
- you start worrying about how much you are worrying...
- or feeling anxious about how anxious you are...
- or becoming increasingly depressed about how depressed you feel...
...and that’s all your therapist seems to want to talk about!
When you stop making this mistake, however, you start to experience radical changes in the way you experience your life and the relationships in it.
- You inhabit your body with pleasure, ease and receptivity.
- You attract healthier partners.
- You stop telling old painful stories and building your identity around them.
- You embrace an attitude of compassion towards yourself and others.
- And you start living a life that lights you on fire, from your crown to your toes!
Most of my students are smart, savvy, intelligent people well versed in self-help and personal development, who--in spite of all the knowledge they've acquired--are still struggling to see the outcomes they want.
And they've wasted a lot of TIME, MONEY, and ENERGY on approaches that DON'T WORK.
If this sounds like you, consider this...
If you had to pay $200 per hour 1x per week for a talk therapist, you could expect to spend $2,400 in three months worth of treatment.
For a fraction of what you would spend in time and money with counseling or talk therapy, this course delivers tangible results, in only 7 lessons worth of fun and creative experiential instruction.
Healing Attachment Wounds is not only chuck full of new insights, tools, and information...
...It is also a ROADMAP that HOLDS YOUR HAND through the body-activating, experiential techniques you NEED TO LEARN AND PRACTICE...
If you ever want to change your attachment style, and experience A SECURE AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP.
Plus, the techniques and processes you will learn in this course you will have for a lifetime, and can access whenever you need and want, WITHOUT HAVING TO SPEND ANOTHER DIME.
HERE'S WHAT YOU WILL LEARN WITH HEALING ATTACHMENT WOUNDS...
PHASE 1: Exploring
In the exploring phase, you may be feeling raw and a bit wounded from past relationships, and are fearful of getting hurt again.
You feel an urgent need for answers and/or solutions, and may have started to read self help books or seek out counseling and therapy. This provides some relief, but not as much as you want.
You continue to struggle with an underlying sense of yearning and desperation. The feelings just won’t go away, even though you may have gained some insight into them. And continue to actively seek tools and resources.
Growth in this phase revolves around assessing your attachment style and acknowledging the grief of attachment wounding. This leads to expanding consciousness around it, and building a vocabulary for feeling states and coping skills.
Phase 1 of Healing Attachment Wounds addresses the growth challenges of the Exploring stage; expanding consciousness and building an emotional vocabulary.
- Feeling stuck in "codependent" behaviors & patterns and struggling with a soul-deep feeling of loss that you just can't shake?
- Feeling frustrated and overwhelmed by your emotions, unable to soothe your anxiety or stop a freight train of automatic negative thoughts from derailing your confidence in love?
- Does it seem like you perpetually get caught in the same relationship pattern over and over again, even though you were wary of all the red flags, and all signs said it would be different this time?
Lessons 1 through 3 provide tools that will help you...
- Illuminate the intersections between attachment, grief, and addictive behaviors and tendencies.
- Using guided visualizations and natural imagery to organize your feelings in a non-threatening way.
- Recognize 6 signs of the anxious avoidant trap, to help you identify your patterns in love, and consciously extract meaning from them.
By the end of phase 1, you will…
- Have gone from confused to consciously aware of the negative impact complicated grief and short term escapes may have had on your attachment relationships
- Have learned to accurately identify your feelings and embrace them as important communicators of your intuition,
- Never again blindly fall into insecure relationships or toxic romantic situations.
In other words, you will have found many of the answers you’ve been searching for, and understand just how much more there is to discover.
PHASE 2: DISCOVERING
In the discovery phase, much of the knowledge and research you have done starts to synthesize. You manage to create some spaciousness around your feelings and the yearnings are not so poignant anymore; they are now understood in their proper context. You also are more willing to sit with uncomfortable feelings.
You want to connect with your own body, and delve into a deeper sense of spirituality. You have explored the hard sciences, and this offers some solace, but now you are searching for a deeper sense of meaning for what you’ve experienced.
In this phase, old stuff that you thought you’d processed may resurface, and you may struggle with feelings of failure or thinking you’ve regressed or relapsed.
Growth in this phase revolves around the recognition that old stuff comes up because you are now strong enough to process it with a new level of sophistication, one that fosters in spiritual maturity you seek, in addition to the expansion of consciousness.
Phase 2 of Healing Attachment Wounds addresses the growth challenges of the Discovering stage; understanding issues of insecure attachment through the framework of neuroscience and increasing spiritual maturity.
- Wondering how your childhood and family systems may have impacted your success in your adult relationships?
- Ever been compelled by emotional triggers and physical symptoms of anxiety beyond your control?
Lessons 4 and 5 provide tools that will help you…
- Recognize several different parenting styles and their potential impact on adult attachment relationships and behavior.
- Recognize the impact of 5 core brain systems and how they affect relationships.
- Recognize the impact of trauma on the brain, and how to conceptualize attachment styles and their effect on your nervous system, through the framework of Polyvagal theory.
By the end of phase 2, you will have…
- Gone from idealizing and romanticizing your childhood, to more compassionately understanding why and how you may have accumulated some emotional and energetic baggage that simply does not belong to you.
- Gone from feeling out of control and beating yourself up over instinctual impulses, to learning how to access mindfulness-based resources to reduce triggered responses.
In other words, you will have satisfied a need for meaning and context, recognizing that old stuff comes up because you are now strong enough to process it with a new level of sophistication, one that fosters in spiritual maturity you seek, in addition to the expansion of consciousness.
PHASE 3: LOVING
In the discovery phase, much of the knowledge and research you have done starts to synthesize. You manage to create some spaciousness around your feelings and the yearnings are not so poignant anymore; they are now understood in their proper context. You also are more willing to sit with uncomfortable feelings.
You want to connect with your own body, and delve into a deeper sense of spirituality. You have explored the hard sciences, and this offers some solace, but now you are searching for a deeper sense of meaning for what you’ve experienced.
In this phase, old stuff that you thought you’d processed may resurface, and you may struggle with feelings of failure or thinking you’ve regressed or relapsed.
Growth in this phase revolves around the recognition that old stuff comes up because you are now strong enough to process it with a new level of sophistication, one that fosters in spiritual maturity you seek, in addition to the expansion of consciousness.
Phase 3 of Healing Attachment Wounds addresses the growth challenges of the Loving stage; implementing the skills you have learned and assuming the authority you have to be a co-creator in your relationships.
- Do you find that affirmations have never worked for you and trying to keep a positive attitude just feels like choosing to live in a delusional reality?
- Do you have a lot of insight, but still struggle with your emotions and actually feeling any changes in your inner world and experience?
Lessons 6 and 7 provide tools that will help you...
- Identify and shed two types of limiting beliefs that keep you locked in a cycle of self-sabotage.
- Complete a reframing focus wheel exercise for installing new affirmative belief statements that open up the possibilities for you, and put the kibosh on automatic negative thinking.
- Reclaim the sacred body and transform a wide range of emotions through guided visualization exercises, arts-based exercises, and an inspirational story.
By the end of phase 3, you will…
- Have transformed your mindset from being locked in a cycle of self sabotage, to shedding those self fulfilling prophecies and opening yourself up to love.
- Have gone from feeling fearful, angry, and disconnected from your body, to standing sovereign in your sacred temple, ready to give and receive love, beyond insecurity.
In other words, you will have the confidence and skills to connect with people on a more authentic and intimate level, while still prioritizing self care, maintaining a spiritual practice, and feeling on fire about life, come what may.
YOU WILL WALK AWAY WITH...
- 7+ Downloadable workbooks and handouts
- 7 Audio meditations
- 7+ Didactic Video Lectures and Art Tutorials
- Plus 5 Valuable Bonus Offers with 3 Expert Guest Presentations!
PLUS 5 VALUABLE BONUSES!
Bonus #1
Lifetime Access to The Paid, Private Facebook Group
Ask Questions, Get Feedback, and Connect to The Community
Once you've enrolled, you will gain lifetime access to a paid, private Facbeook group and community forum where you can post your assignments, ask questions, get feedback from me, and participate in the discussion with other community members!
This is a bonus offer you won't want to miss!
Testimonials from our group members...
Bonus #2
Lifetime Access to 1 Monthly Livestream Q&A
Get Your Questions Answered in Real Time
Part of my commitment to holding your hand through this process is being available to answer questions and flesh out ideas and concepts in real time. There is something really special that happens in the live space, and you never know what new insights will be channeled and/or discovered together! This bonus grants you access to 1 livestream per month, hosted inside the paid, private Facebook group.
Bonus #3
Breaking Destructive Conflict Patterns
Kyle Benson, Intentionally Intimate Relationship Coach
Once you've gained all the knowledge Healing Attachment Wounds has to offer, the next question may be, "Okay, so how do I put this into practice in a relationship?"
Love and intimacy coach, Kyle Benson, will rock your world with 40+ years worth of research on how secure partners relate to each other, and especially how to manage conflict in relationships.
Kyle has dedicated his career to helping couples build “intentionally intimate relationships,” and is a researcher at the Love Lab in Seattle, Washington, at The Gottman Institute.
His work has been featured in dozens of major media channels including Business Insider, U.S. News, The Chicago Tribune, Huffington Post, and more.
Kyle's presentation shares years of evidenced-based research in what makes long term relationships work, and how to mitigate the effects of the "four horsemen" in relationships: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.
This is a bonus offer you won't want to miss!
Bonus #4
Shamanic Healing for The Heart Chakra
Kristen Von Foxx, MPS, HC, The Shamanatrix
When we struggle with insecure attachment styles, there can be a tendency to turn to the esoteric for answers. But wasting time and money on an addiction to fortune tellers, isn't going to put a dent in the grooves carved by your attachment style into your limbic brain and nervous system.
That doesn't mean there isn't a place for the esoteric in healing, however.
With this bonus, you will experience an EFFECTIVE and LONG LASTING SPIRITUAL PRACTICE that will open up your heart center and put you in touch with YOUR OWN SPIRITUAL WISDOM and resources, which is the highest authority on your life, there is.
Shaman and health coach, Kristen Von Foxx, MPS, HC, will take you on a guided shamanic journey to recovery and integrate your soul parts, in the Heart Chakra. Kristen has a Bachelors in Psychology, a Masters degree in Creative Arts Therapies, and her Certificate for Holistic Nutritional Counseling.
She has studied with 10 different shamanic healers, some of whom are still living in un-industrialized, indigenous communities, including among the Shepipo people of Peru.
Kristen brings a wide breadth of experience to her practice as a shaman, and specializes in soul retrieval and dragon's blood medicine.
Bonus #5
An Introduction to Sacred Sexuality
Sacha Fossa, MA, Sexual Wellness and Empowerment Coach
Authentically inhabiting our sexuality is so important when it comes to not only relating to a partner, but also in connecting to your own life force energy.
Join Sacha Fossa to discuss sacred sexuality, and how we relate to ourselves, and to our partners, in the bedroom.
Sacha Fossa is a sexual wellness and empowerment coach, educator, and holistic healing arts practitioner.
She has an MA in Health, Arts & Sciences, is Planned Parenthood certified, is an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and licensed Erotic Blueprint Coach™, with over 20 certifications in Healing Arts Therapies.
Her passion is to help you create your best sex and love life, partnered or not.
CHECK OUT EVA'S TRANSITION FROM OVER-INTELLECTUALIZING AND ENDLESS INSIGHT, TO MAKING CONTACT WITH HER FEELINGS, AND EXPERIENCING TRUE SHIFTS IN HER BODY AND HER EMOTIONAL LIFE.
When Eva decided to purchase this course, she was intellectually able to see her unhealthy patterns of relating, but was unable to break out of them. The experiential activities allowed Eva to get in touch with her emotions and to release them. The modified family drawing activity which asks you to identify and express the energetic cords between family members was one of her favorite activities.
"Do not hesitate. Definitely take this course. I am sure you have read the books, I am sure that you have gone to a counselor, like I did, and it's intellectual. This course brings the experiential. It will bring the two things together. It will help you feel your emotions, go to your body, and process through that. Just do it. It's so worth it."
-Eva Alos Melchor
I KNOW YOU'VE BEEN TELLING YOURSELF...
"I just need to......lose more weight......get a better job......make more money......say all the right things...be smarter, funnier or wittier...become spiritually enlightened and detached...and then, finally, things will start working out for me, in love."
But it's not true.
In the 15+ years I've spent working with adults struggling with insecure attachment styles, I've learned that it's not complicated to learn how to attract stable and emotionally available partners, when you have a deep understanding of attachment styles, and how to harness your vital energy.
And it all starts with Healing Attachment Wounds!
You won't believe how quickly you will start to FEEL DIFFERENTLY, and how POSITIVELY your romantic partners and/or potential partners will begin RESPONDING TO YOU.
Sita had lost their partner to cancer, and had spent several years trying to recover from the grief. Sita didn’t realize the ways in which this loss had made it difficult for Sita to open up, and receive love again. Learning how to process the grief using tools such as guided meditations and experiential activities, were the most helpful and effective aspects of the program. Sita reported, “It’s like the parts I thought I’d never get back, have come back to life again.”
Maddie was a divorced, single mom who, on the outside, appeared to be fiercely managing all the moving parts in her life with ease, but on the inside, she was feeling lonely and exhausted. She labored under a harsh internal critic that told her she had “too much baggage” and “no one could ever love someone like [her]”. With Healing Attachment Wounds, Maddie learned how to mother her own inner child, and adopt a loving stance towards herself. Six months after the program, she met another single parent, and within a year, they were engaged to be married.
Jerry had spent most of his life trying to prove himself to his parents, particularly his father. This led to decades of working a corporate job that he hated. He also wound up marrying someone that ticked off all the right boxes, but with whom he felt he had very little in common; over the years, the relationship had become toxic and strained. When Jerry enrolled in Healing Attachment Wounds, he was at a crossroads in his marriage and in his career, but still looking to the outside world to tell him what to do, and validate his angst. After taking the course, Jerry summoned the courage to leave his wife, and start a certification training in Reiki Healing. After 9 months, he’d reduced his corporate hours by 40%, and was transitioning into opening a private practice as a Reiki practitioner. He’d also become part of a community in which he finally felt seen and accepted.
CHECKOUT AMANDA'S JOURNEY TO DECODING THE PUSH-PULL DYNAMIC IN HER 9-YEAR MARRIAGE, AND DISCOVERING FEELINGS SHE NEVER KNEW SHE HAD.
Amanda was drawn to purchase Healing Attachment Wounds after hitting a rough patch in her 9-year marriage. She felt learning about attachment styles and why she was feeling the way she was feeling, helped her to be able to step back and observe her own behavior, rather than acting in the moment. It also helped her to see the root of her husband's behavior, and the push-pull dynamic in their relationship. Her favorite activities included the arts-based experientials, which opened up "new things" for her, and helped her release feelings she didn't realize were there. Her advice for anyone wanting to take the course, is to "Take it...it is definitely worth the investment."
--Amanda
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WHY LISTEN TO ME?
Attachment styles and healing attachment wounds is a topic so near and dear to my heart, because I don't just teach this stuff, I've lived it.
As a child of divorce, I had parents who were always on the move, and bounced around from state to state; we also lived on the edge of poverty for much of my young life.
I became a high achiever to compensate, which served me well professionally, until my relationship struggles tore down everything I had accomplished, and I wound up a divorced, single mom.
Then, after losing my job due to budget cuts, within a six-month time frame, one after another, both my parents and my brother were diagnosed with serious, chronic illnesses.
And the new partner I had fallen madly in love with– the one all the raw parts of myself wanted so desperately to please and keep – couldn’t prioritize me. When he left, my heart broke anew, and I miscarried what would have been my second child. I felt my soul was split wide open.
As I came face-to-face with my greatest fears. I knew I had to find the grace on the other side, or collapse into a victimized identity.
This gave me the motivation to radically change the way I was living, loving, working, and perceiving the world.
I decided to dive straight down into my demons, while pursuing certification in Reiki and EFT Tapping (energy healing), building a private practice, and doing research for a book about attachment and grief.
Ultimately, I found several other contributors willing to share their stories of grief, and we got it published!
Writing the book emboldened me to shed my shame, and talk about these things in a way I had never thought I would feel safe doing. It also provided the vehicle through which I learn how to would move from an insecure to a secure attachment style!
This led to creating the curriculum for my online courses, such as Healing Attachment Wounds, and building an online community for support. Much to my delight, both caught fire, and I have never looked back!
CHECKOUT HOW KETURAH LEARNED TO EXPRESS HERSELF CREATIVELY, AND MAKE CONTACT WITH FEELINGS THAT LOGIC AND RATIONAL INSIGHT COULDN'T TOUCH.
When Keturah decided to purchase this program, she was struggling with self-doubt, and beating herself up because not amount of logic or rational insight could change her feelings. Through this course, she gained a better understanding and empathy for herself, and felt artistically inspired; “I am finally beginning to feel what I need to feel.” The guided meditations and arts-based activities were Keturah’s favorite aspect of the program, because it allowed her to externalize her feelings and work with them in tangible ways.
"This course is not about getting your ex back, it is all about getting yourself back. This is an investment in something important, YOU. You could spend a lot more money on books and other programs (like I've done) and find your wheels spinning. If you do take the course, make the most of it, take your time and do every step and don't hold back when it comes to expressing your feelings creatively, you might surprise yourself."
-Keturah Jordan
THE TRUTH IS...
At this point, if you are still be harboring some doubts about whether or not you want to purchase this course, it's usually not about whether or not the content is worth it, or the price is right, but rather, whether or not you believe the soul-shaking love of your dreams is even possible.
I am here to tell you...
All the things are possible for you.
All the feels are possible for you.
- All the PASSION...
- The KISSES...
- The HUGS...
- The LAUGHTER...
- The INSIDE JOKES...
- The SHARED INTERESTS...
- The COOKING TOGETHER...
- The shared VACATIONS...
- The INTIMATE CONVERSATIONS that go all night...
- Looking into each other's eyes and just KNOWING WHAT THE OTHER IS THINKING...
- The LICKING BURRITO JUICE off each other's faces (...or is that just me?)...
It is ALL possible for you.
More than that, it's even probable, once you decide and commit to living nothing less than a next-level life, and committing to the processes that will set you on that path.
The good news is, the tools you might need are relatively simple. And the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey, already exists INSIDE YOU.
However, Learning how to access those parts of yourself can sometimes be a difficult task, when you've been taught your whole life to do the exact opposite.
But that's just conditioning, and it can be undone.
Just as the brain is blessed with plasticity, and it can be rewired.
Negative, defensive patterns of relating, and the cynical worldview that they create can be unfolded, so that you can RELAX into the brightest luminescence that is your spirit.
It is a process which will allow you to step into a state of being on FIYAH about life, and share that brilliance with a stars-in-their-eyes lover.
If taking a chance on pivoting in that direction isn't worth the cost of this course, I don't know what is!
It's not hopeless, and it is worth it!
You CANNOT make radical transformations, or attract abundance (romantic or otherwise) into your life ALONE.
And you certainly can't experience radical improvements with the same behavioral patterns and mindset you've always had.
Transformation is rarely linear, sometimes progress feels like fear, and TRUST is a verb.
Figure out what sparks your fire, stay the course, and find a tribe that will support your every leg of the journey.
Let Healing Attachment Wounds be that first step for you. Here's to your BREAKTHROUGH!
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Includes:
7+ Downloadable workbooks and handouts
7 Audio meditations
7+ Didactic Video Lectures and Art Tutorials
Access to the paid, private Facebook group and discussion forum.
Lifetime access to one monthly live Q&A per month.
Plus 3 Bonus Guest Presentations!
All content, including bonuses, will be made available immediately.
Plus, a 14-Day money back guarantee.
(First payment deducted today.)
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Pay-In-Full And Save
Includes:
7+ Downloadable workbooks and handouts
7 Audio meditations
7+ Didactic Video Lectures and Art Tutorials
Access to the paid, private Facebook group and discussion forum.
Lifetime access to one monthly live Q&A per month.
Plus 3 Bonus Guest Presentations!
All content, including bonuses, will be made available immediately.
Plus, a 14-Day money back guarantee.
(Save 20% By Paying in Full)
1 Payment of $597
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Does this count as psychotherapy, and will my insurance cover it?
This content is not considered psychotherapy, and it is not covered under insurance, but we anticipate you will experience some psychotherapeutic benefit, in the realms of self help and personal growth.
Important to note: If you are struggling with active psychosis, severe mental illness, self harming behaviors, suicidality, or recent hospitalization, we do not advise consuming this content without the supervision of a licensed, trauma-informed psychotherapist.
What if I sign up but then change my mind?
Your course purchase comes with a 14-day money back guarantee. If you don't like the course, you can contact us within 14 days of purchase, and you will receive your money back, no questions asked. You may contact us at support@brianamacwilliam.com. Please allow up to 48 hours for a response.
What is the time commitment?
This course is completely self paced, and you have lifetime access to the content. However, I recommend dedicating at least one hour per week, for seven consecutive weeks, to reap the most benefits from it.
What if I have questions?
If you have questions, we invite you to pose them inside the paid, private Facebook group where all paying members of our community have lifetime access to monthly livestreams and can gain feedback from Briana, and/or her team.
Does Briana Offer Private Coaching Sessions?
At this time, Briana does not offer private coaching. However, you are invited to join her during the live group coaching calls and Q&A sessions inside the paid, private Facebook group, 1x per month, to ask your questions and gain direct feedback.