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This course is for securely attached "Cornerstones" who feel confused by insecure partners that send mixed signals and seem to be triggered by emotional honesty. In 7 easy lessons, you'll go from confused to clear, while learning how to amplify your strengths and help stabilize your relationship without having to spend a ton of money on experts and gurus or spend years in therapy with no tangible result.

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Thank you for your interest in Secure Attachment 101! At present, enrollment is closed. However, if you would like to join the waitlist, we will be sure to alert you when enrollment opens again (usually within 4-6 weeks). We look forward to welcoming you to our community!

success stories

When Mina's relationship began, her partner had been attentive, loving, and affectionate. After about three months, however, it seemed like everything she said and did would trigger feelings of distrust, and they would passively aggressively punish her for seemingly no reason. After taking this course, Mina came to understand the sensitivities and defensive coping skills of her insecure partner and was able to reduce their fighting and increase their intimacy within a few week's time.

“I used to be afraid that our relationship was doomed and I’d somehow messed things up. But this course demystified all the mixed signals I was getting and really helped me to see that there were deep insecurities my partner had to process. My need to fix things and rescue them was putting strain on the relationship, but once I started focusing on my wants and needs more, my partner started caring more about me! Thank you, Briana!"

--Mina O'Brian

Stella Adam

Stella struggled to decode the mixed signals her partner would send, expressing emotional closeness and affection one minute, then disappearing and acting cold and remote the next. She was often left feeling like she must have done something wrong, and  tried making up for it by predicting her partner's needs without him having to say it. After taking this course, she was able to establish boundaries for herself in the relationship, and pull back when her partner started acting inconsistently. Immediately she noticed him becoming more attentive and taking the initiative in their relationship more often.

“I kept making myself responsible for my partner's behavior, but now I have learned not to take things so personally, and prioritize what I need and want from a relationship in general. That helped me see my relationship from a broader perspective, and hold myself and my partner to a higher standard.” - Stella Adam

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Marcellus was a manager in his family business, who carried a lot of responsibility for taking care of his family. After taking this program, he recognized that even though they were well-meaning, his family's interference negatively impacted his relationships. Within 6 months of completing the course, he’d quit the family job and started his own online business. He’d also started dating someone new, and had created more appropriate boundaries between his relationship and family expectations.

“The step-by-step exercises for identifying and stating your boundaries were a game-changer for me. It helped me declare my independence, even if my folks were still a little sore about it. But I know now its okay for them to have sad feelings. And I’m happier than I’ve ever been, doing my own thing, and dating someone that admires that about me.”

- Marcellus Herrara