Lupita's Secret: From "7-Year Itch" to Newly Devoted

"After taking this course, I feel like we finally have a set of tools that we can use to help us communicate better and connect on a deeper level."

Your jaw will drop when I tell you THE must-have devotion secret that is missing in 93% of people's communication skills...

And no, its not knowing exactly the right words to say at exactly the right moment.

Or being fully “healed” of your own emotional baggage so that everything you express always lands with persuasive precision.

So what is this “devotion secret?”


More specifically, wielding your EMOTIONAL ENERGY with intentionality.

It's probably the most crucial component to improving your communication and experiencing dramatic positive results in your relationships, without saying a word.

Let me explain...

Did you know that research says up to 93% of communication is non-verbal? 

This includes body language, facial expressions, pauses in conversation, how we dress and present ourselves.

Non-verbal communication can be subtle or very overt, but it has a huge impact on the way we communicate with others.

And yet, so much of this communication is TOTALLY UNCONSCIOUS!

But what if it wasn’t?

Can you imagine what an amazing superpower it would be to master such a huge aspect of communication, WITH INTENTION?

That’s why somatic experiential learning practices are the foundation of my trademarked approach to healing attachment styles and communication, The MacWilliam Method™ (TMM).

TMM uses three core tools to affect significant transformations on the level of 1) cognitive reframing, 2) body activation, and 3) arts-based experientials.

When partners learn to connect creatively, outside of verbal communication (which can be fraught with mental triggers), they learn to more intimately connect on a heart level, before discussing difficult material.

To do this effectively, we apply TMM to my super-easy “HIP” Communication formula, and the results will shock you!

For example, Lupita joined my live group-coaching program, THE COURAGEOUS COMMUNICATOR, she and her husband of seven years were "stuck in a rough patch.”

They kept having the same argument in different iterations and couldn’t seem to escape a cycle of triggering each other into their defensive corners.

After taking this course, Lupita reported they were most excited by the non-verbal creative arts exercises, which allowed them to get out of their heads and appreciate each other’s creativity, in a fun way that was new and different.

By the end of the course, they were a lot more loving and accepting toward each other, and there was a renewed sense of devotion to their relationship.

“I never realized how much my need to be right was costing me, in terms of feeling close to my husband. After taking this course, I feel like we finally have a set of tools that we can use to help us communicate better and connect on a deeper level.” -Lupita, 33

Moral of the story: To move past this fear-based compulsion and step into an abundant attitude about relationships, it’s necessary to acquire communication skills that FACTOR IN the attachment styles of all parties involved, and how that impacts us non-verbally.

Tapping into your creative, life-force energy BEFORE attempting verbal communication with a partner, will connect you to in safe ways that encourage vulnerability.

And then, guess what happens?

  • You communicate in ways that don't put your partner on the defense.
  • You learn to manage your triggers in an argument.
  • You find a common ground in which you both feel seen and heard.

Lupita merely followed my "HIP" Communication Formula and didn’t miss a beat. And because she was consistent and practiced her new tools correctly, she finally saw real results.

The same system has also helped hundreds of my already-partnered students revitalize their relationships as well.

This step-by-step program is SO EASY and FUN to follow.

If you’re interested in learning more, then click this link here to view the information page.

Alternatively, you can hop on a call with us, and we’ll help you understand how my 3-step “HIP” Communication Formula works, and you can see if it’s right for you 🙂

Talk soon!

- Briana

Interested in experiencing results like these? Enroll Today!

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This is a 6-month, live, group coaching program including an attachment and trauma-informed, somatic approach to fearlessly expressing your needs and navigating conflicts fairly, so you can deepen the intimacy, whether partnered or single.

If emotional intimacy is your destination, attachment styles is the vehicle that's going to get you there, but not without any gas...that's where my trademarked method, and "HIP" communication formula, come in.

Communication is more than the words that we speak, it is the ENERGY that we FEEL and EXPRESS in relationships. Learning the right words without understanding how to process the emotional energy behind them, is going to keep you stuck in cyclical negative patterns in love. Until now!

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You Will Learn How To...

INSPIRE him to spend quality time together at least 2-3 days a week... without ever wondering if "he's really there" or "thinking about someone else..."

LET GO of anxiety... while your partner takes over all the initiating and planning, so you can just relax, show up, and enjoy your sensuality.

ESTABLISH an intimate emotional connection, with TRUST and LOYALTY... so you can feel loved and appreciated, showered with the attention and affection your heart desires.

Even if he's emotionally distant right now or you're worried there’s someone is possible to turn things around, without years of talk therapy, one-off retreats, or “fake it ‘til you make it” gimmicks that don’t work.

Enroll today, and Put Yourself on The Fast Track to Feeling More Secure in Love!


As a licensed and board-certified creative arts therapist (with certifications in Reiki Healing, EFT Tapping, and trauma-informed somatic therapy), I've spent more than 15 years working with thousands of adults struggling with insecure attachment styles.

Experience has taught me it’s not complicated to learn how to attract stable and emotionally available partners when you have a deep understanding of how attachment styles and energy healing works.

Here's The Radical Truth...

You ARE enough.
You are NOT too much.
You are FULLY deserving.

And there is a reality that exists in which you get to BE your most authentic self, and live your FULLEST life, with a partner who cherishes you, just as you are. I know, because I’ve walked through that fire myself, and found grace on the other side.

My online coaching program, The Courageous Communicator, is going to hold your hand every step of the way, so you get to embrace that reality, for good. 

And believe me, it’s SO worth it!

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Not Sure? Book A No-Pressure Clarity Call

 If you are interested in attracting and/or inspiring your existing partner to become your emotional equal in love, devoted to you and only you, but you're not sure if this program is the right fit, you can also book a no-pressure clarity call with us to support you in this important decision!